I’m so thrilled that shorts have finally climbed the fashion tier and are now considered stylish. I was just browsing “Haven For The Hip And Fashionable Set” at Cosmo.ph and found it wonderfully refreshing that what I wore in college is now considered in vogue.

You see, being a student in the 90s, I was surrounded by peers who wore button-down tops, designer jeans, and heeled loafers. I, on the other hand, went to class in shorts, t-shirts, and sandals. I know I’ve gotten flack for this in the past, for my informal way of dress. At one point, one of my guy college orgmates pointed to my outfit—a Sesame Street baby tee borrowed from a roommate, red checker shorts I’ve had since highshool, and leather Birkenstocks—and said:

That’s what you wore today, like everyday that’s what you wear?”

I was embarrassed, but what could I do? That was the time I knew nothing about shopping, and didn’t really have the resources to arrive decked to the nines in school. Besides, my outfits were COMFY and I felt my aesthetic made sense.

Another fashion faux pas I remember was wearing a Giordano striped piqué collared tee and pants to a movie premiere, when all the girls were wearing little black dresses. I’ll be forever thankful to my friend Henry, the members’ committee head, who kept me company during the movie and made me feel at home amidst the sea of slinky semi-formal wear.

It’s ironic though, if I wear the exact same outfit today, and then pair it with killer heels and maybe a gold lamé belt, I wouldn’t feel a notch self-conscious at all. In fact, I know I’d feel fierce and fasyon (I just read earlier that men’s trousers are supposed to be trendy this season; also, I started wearing piqué and collared shirts again last year).

During my magazine years, I came to realize that I tended to overdress because of this underlying fear of being ridiculed for not being outfitted well for any occasion. Eventually I snapped out of this and actually started going to events—and to the office once I found out it was okay—in shorts and easy tops (see Cosmo beauty ed Nicole’s cute tank-and-denim combo); of course paired with good footwear and accessories. These days, I’d like to think I’ve struck a balance between my choices in casual and event wear. I now dress by mood and follow my own fashion(able) pulse.

Part of this month’s Cosmo Series, second of 16 posts also published at Cosmo.ph

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